Hello there,
We have all heard the saying that sometimes you need to lose first to be successful. However, when you fail, people can lose hope. We have to keep trying more. There is a knowledge that we all live and forget over time; “No matter where in the world, a baby drops an average of 200 times before he learns to walk. "
People read a lot of books, watch movies, get an education to be successful, but when the effects are not repeated, they slowly become forgotten. This knowledge is something we all know by experiencing it on our own. However, as long as we do not address the failures over time, we can even forget this knowledge we know and experience. After failing 1-2 times in an action we decide to do, the vast majority of us give up immediately and do not try again. However, this process does not progress in this way at all during infancy.
When a baby begins walking trials, his family supports the baby with all his might. They lift it every time it drops and encourages it to try again. If a baby has no physical disabilities, he/she never stops trying to walk, and every baby, without exception, eventually achieves it. The fact that a person that cannot even turn left and right while lying on the ground when it is born begins to walk in a balanced way on both legs is a much more difficult action than any experience that a person may encounter later in his/her life.
Falling hurts the baby physically as well as the feeling of failure, which is a reason for giving up on its own. However, the baby never stops trying, no matter how painful it hurts.
After the childhood phase, things change completely in terms of our environment. Nobody, including our family, will support us in a matter we want to do, that we should continue after 1-2 failures. Beyond providing support, they make you believe that you cannot do this with negative speeches even in the first attempts, and if a person believes in something once, unfortunately, you cannot explain that the issue is not.
As we grow up, we forget the "secrets of success" that we knew very well from the very beginning. We keep trying to learn again. Millions of people around the world die before they can learn again, or they have done jobs or hobbies that are way beyond their capacity.
Perhaps the biggest reason for the family or those around us to encourage walking is that they too have passed that route and know that if they try, the baby can succeed. That's why they try to help us walk by holding our hands with great effort. In other decisions in life, because they do not have this kind of experience, they approach the suspicion of "I guess it won't happen, let it be ..." when we have two failures. After making a decision, if we try it 200 times without paying attention to the environment and with the same determination, we will be surprised by the result and have made a great discovery.
If starting a job is half of a job, believing that you can do that job is the other half. If we continue to work without giving up, we are hardly likely to fail. I hope we never stop trying. Remember, if we try at least 200 times with the same determination without listening to anyone's negative opinions, we will reach the result and experience great pleasure.
Keep faith,
See you soon.
